House Rules

For the un-owned submissive/slave:

• The Ladies do love service when it’s also well presented! The VERY minimum is a smart pair of black trousers and a smart black shirt + a slave/sub collar – NO t-shirts, no Jeans, no tracksuit trousers no ‘just a pair of cotton boxer shorts’.

• You can wear: leather, PVC, zenti or all smart black trousers and a proper (ironed) shirt (no t-shirts) with a slave collar or a formal service outfit: a maids outfit/butler or school uniform.

• No bare feet – its regular nightclub venue and although floors are clean they may have shards of glass left from previous mishaps. Black tennis shoes or black boots are best but even a pair of flip flops is better than bare feet!

• If you do not have a collar there will be a limited supply on sale at the box office – prices start at £10.

• All the House Dommes will be keeping an eye out for violation of the dress code and will have no problem asking you to leave if you are wandering around in regular clothing.

• If you are in ANY doubt please email a picture of your proposed outfit and We will email you back to let you know if it is suitable.

• Politeness shows respect!

• Being formal with your communication will help to support any nervousness you are feeling and decrease the chances of potential mistakes.

• You will find being formal in your actions and speech is more likely to be welcomingly accepted. In generalisation, manners will be viewed upon with great approval!

• Holding a door open, finding a seat or helping to remove or put on a coat for a lady will simply demonstrate your enthusiasm to serve meaningfully and efficiently.

• Club Femdom is a Femdom event and not a Multi Mistress event. If you want to guarantee play then we suggest you go with a professional.
   

Initialising a conversation with a Femdom Lady:

• Remember it is not polite to interrupt any conversation, more so for a slave to do so when a Femdom Lady is talking to another.

• Always show respect and stand a distance of three footsteps away when the Lady is standing.

• Do not appear impatient or seek attention by moving about and causing a distraction.

• Remain standing still, eyes downcast and hands behind your back.

• If the Lady is seated and you are able to kneel, then do so.

• Keep the respected distance and have the palms of your hands facing upwards resting upon your knees, eyes remained downcast.

• Only when the Femdom Lady acknowledges your presence should you then respectfully speak.

• A good example of a first introduction would be “With respect, may I speak with you?” If you are unaware of whom you are speaking with, addressing a Femdom Lady with Ma’am or Ms would be viewed as admirable.

• The Femdom Lady will inform you of their preferred title if they so wish to engage in conversation with you.
   

General rules and guidelines:

• Seating within Club Femdom is strictly prohibited to the submissive and slave. If for some medical reason you have difficulty standing, kneeling or sitting on the floor then, inform a House Mistress and they will assist you.

• Dungeon furniture is for active play and not for sitting upon.

• Coming from the outside environment into Club Femdom can be very intimidating if you are a slave/submissive encountering your first time in an unfamiliar situation. There is an exceptional team of House Dommes at Club Femdom that will assist and guide you if you should you require that extra reassurance.

• We are not mindreaders so if you would like to be played with, please respectfully ask a Lady. If you are not having much success then speak to a House Domme who can guide you in the right direction.

• At Club Femdom we have a Sub Sorting Hat which can help you negotiate playtime with a Domme. The Sub Sorting Hat station will be boss overseen by Miss Sakura.

• At Club Femdom our awareness of safe, sane and consensual play is at the forefront of the House Dommes priorities and again, they will assist if you so choose. As a consenting adult slave/submissive you will be aware of your own limitations and boundaries - make these clear before you engage in any form of active play.

• The house safe word is RED.

• If you are ordered to do something by someone you do not know, you feel uncomfortable or feel it is wrong as a submissive/slave, you do have the right to politely refuse. Remember to remain formally polite - “With respect Ma’am/Ms I am not familiar with who you are and therefore must refuse your request." If you are demanded by the same person the second time, again remain polite - “With respect Ma’am/Ms I have already stated that I cannot serve you, please do not ask again”. If the demand continues for a third time, walk away without saying anything and seek the assistance from a House Domme.

• For those slaves that are owned and collared you will of course have your instructions from your owner, and no doubtingly be tethered by your collar and leash all evening whilst displaying a fine example of your training and submission to your owner, but do not hesitate to seek assistance from the House Dommes if any concerns arise.